
Alongside my coaching, consultancy and mediation work, I am an accredited Humanist funeral celebrant with Humanists UK.
I work with families across Newcastle, Gateshead and the wider North East to create ceremonies that feel honest, personal and true to the person who has died - without a fixed script or borrowed words.
Although the settings are different, the heart of the work is much the same. Whether I'm supporting a leader, helping colleagues navigate conflict, or working with a family after a bereavement, I'm helping people through moments that matter.
This work keeps me close to what matters most: people, relationships and the stories we leave behind.
.You can find out more about my celebrancy work, including how I support families and what a Humanist funeral involves, on my dedicated celebrancy website.
Every life contains stories worth telling.
Choosing someone to lead a loved one's funeral is a deeply personal decision. Listen to a short recording below to get a sense of how I sound and the gentle, honest approach I bring to every ceremony.
I was drawn to funeral celebrancy through my own experiences of funerals, including speaking at my mum's funeral and helping create ceremonies for people close to me.
Those experiences taught me something I carry into every ceremony: people rarely remember whether every detail was perfect.
They remember whether the ceremony felt like the person they loved. They remember the stories, the laughter, the tears and the moments when everyone recognised something of that person in the room.
This work sits at the heart of everything I do. It keeps me close to what matters most: people, relationships and the moments that carry real weight.
A Humanist funeral is a non‑religious ceremony that focuses on the person who has died; their life, their relationships, and the memories they leave behind.
It offers a sincere, personal way to say goodbye without hymns, prayers, or religious language.
Instead, the ceremony centres on the stories, values, and moments that made your loved one who they were. It’s shaped around warmth, honesty, and authenticity - a chance to celebrate a life in a way that feels true to them.
Humanist funerals are inclusive and welcoming to everyone, whatever their beliefs.
The aim is to create a thoughtful space where people can come together to remember, reflect, and support one another.
If you’re not familiar with Humanist ceremonies, that’s absolutely fine. I’ll guide you through the options and help you create something that feels right for you and your family.
Humanists UK is a national charity representing non-religious people, advocating for a secular state, and promoting a rational, ethical, fulfilling life based on reason, empathy, and science.
Founded in 1896, it has over 100,000 members and advocates for human rights, equality, and humanist perspectives in public life.

Please contact me at kay.jones@humanistceremonies.org.uk if you have any other questions
What is a Humanist funeral?
A humanist funeral is a non-religious ceremony that offers both a dignified farewell and a sincere celebration of a life. It acknowledges the sadness of saying goodbye while honouring the person's story, values and legacy.
What happens at a Humanist funeral?
A typical ceremony may include music, readings and a carefully crafted tribute. Contributions from family and friends may be included. There is time for quiet reflection, followed by the committal and closing words.
Where are Humanist funerals held?
Most take place at crematoria, cemeteries or woodland burial grounds, though you can choose any venue that feels right.
Do we have to be "Humanists" to have a Humanist funeral?
Not at all. Most humanist funerals are for people who lived without religion, even if they would never have called themselves a humanist.
How is the ceremony designed?
I meet with family members to learn about the person who has died and understand the tone you want to set. I then write a completely bespoke script.
Do you have a set script?
No. Every ceremony is written from scratch.
What if we don't know any readings or poems?
That’s absolutely fine. I can suggest options and I’m happy to read on your behalf.
Can family and friends contribute?
Absolutely. Many ceremonies include personal memories, readings, poems or tributes from family and friends.
Can we include hymns?
Possibly. Humanist funerals are non-religious by design, but if your loved one had a strong connection to a particular hymn, it can sometimes be included as part of their story rather than as an act of worship.
Can we include the "Lord's Prayer"?
Typically not. However, if it is important to you and a friend or family member is happy to read it, we may be able to incorporate it in a way that feels respectful and appropriate.
What if some of the family are religious?
Humanist funerals are inclusive of everyone. There is always a quiet moment for personal reflection, which gives those who wish to pray a space to do so.
How do we choose a Celebrant?
You can choose directly or through your funeral director. If you would like me to lead the ceremony, simply tell your funeral director.
Are Humanist Celebrants different from other Celebrants?
Yes. Humanists UK celebrants are trained, accredited, insured and quality-assured. Unlike independent celebrants, Humanists UK celebrants are regularly peer-reviewed and part of a national network with a transparent complaints process.
How much does a Humanist funeral cost?
My fees are shown clearly on this page.
Do you offer Memorial Services & Celebrations of Life?
Yes. These can be held at almost any venue and offer complete flexibility in how a life is remembered and celebrated.
Can you help with Ashes Scattering Ceremonies?
Yes, I'm happy to help.
Can you help me plan my own funeral?
Yes. I can help you think through your choices, record your wishes and create a plan that reflects what matters most to you.
Yes. You can listen to a short recording on my Humanists UK profile to get a sense of my style and approach.
"Thank you so much Kay, it was perfect and we really appreciate it."
“I knew I was in safe hands from the first conversation. Kay composed a beautiful tribute for my mother and I couldn’t have asked for better. Organising a funeral long distance is challenging and stressful, however Kay made this much easier.”
“Thank you for listening so closely, the tribute really captures my Mum perfectly”
"Very professional and friendly. Provided support throughout."
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